The Opt-Out Club
Rewrite the rules. Reclaim what matters.
A coaching membership for women who are done chasing someone else’s version of success—and ready to create a life that actually feels like theirs.
This isn’t a breakdown.
It’s a breakthrough.
You’ve done everything they told you to do:
✔ Checked the boxes
✔ Followed the rules
✔ Built a life that looked good on paper
And still, you’re wondering:
Why doesn’t this feel like mine?
Maybe your job isn’t working anymore.
Maybe your energy’s shot.
Maybe you’ve just spent too damn long being everything to everyone else.
Whatever the reason… you're ready for something different.
Not another to-do list. Not another high-performance routine.
You need space.
Support.
A slower, smarter way to figure out what’s next—on your terms.
That’s what The Opt-Out Club is here for—and this is the moment you start choosing differently.
What This Is (and Isn’t)
You know those memberships where you sign up, get 3,000,000,000 things, and immediately feel behind?
Yeah, this isn’t that.
The Opt-Out Club is intentionally simple, digestible, and rooted in real life—not just another productivity parade in disguise. There are no gold stars for burnout here. No rigid roadmaps. No shame for stepping away when you need to.
This is a choose-your-own-adventure designed to support your next step—not ten steps ahead, and not someone else’s version of what you “should” do.
Just yours.
The Opt-Out Club is like group coaching—but without the group.
No Zoom calls. No performative sharing. Just real support, thoughtful guidance, and personalized feedback at your own pace.
It’s a grounded space to breathe, get clear, and move forward in ways that actually feel good.
Here’s What’s Waiting for You Inside
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Personal Coaching
Each month, I’ll send you a personalized plan highlighting what’s showing up, what to focus on, and where to go next—so you always have clear direction (and never feel like you’re figuring it out alone).
You’ll always hear from me—not a team member, guest coach, or someone pretending to sound like me. (Yep, that happens.)
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Monthly Shifts
Think of each Shift like a choose-your-own-adventure for your slow-living journey—packed with grounded insights, intentional practices, and space to reflect.
More than just a course, you’ll explore themed lessons, choose-your-path activities, and simple yet powerful ways to move forward—so you can finally build a life that actually fits.
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Private Podcast Access
Tune into audio lessons and Q&A episodes that meet you where you are—whether you're walking, commuting, or simply resting. It’s like having a slow-living mentor in your pocket, offering gentle guidance and fresh perspectives each month.
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Supportive Emails
Stay connected through The Opt-Out Inbox: mindful messages to spark insight, encourage consistency, and remind you—you’ve got this.
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Ask Me Anything
Have a question or need a sounding board? Submit your thoughts and hear tailored, thoughtful responses in future podcast Q&As.
Need more support? Members also get exclusive access to my 1:1 Voxer mentorship program, Find Your Next Step—for when you’re ready for personalized, one-on-one guidance.
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Resource Vault
Enjoy a growing library of tools, rituals, and slow-living goodies—always available when you need an extra spark of support.
Inside, you’ll also find some of my most-loved past resources, now available exclusively to Club members.
The Moment Everything Starts to Shift
You’ve done the dance. This is your cue to change the music.
No more squeezing into systems that weren’t built for you.
No more chasing goals that don’t light you up.
No more pretending you’re fine when everything inside you is saying, “This isn’t it.”
The Opt-Out Club isn’t about doing more.
It’s about doing it differently.
It’s your space to pause the noise, tune back into yourself, and start choosing with intention—not obligation.
Not because someone told you to.
Not because it’s what everyone else is doing.
But because it feels right to you.
Spoiler alert: You’re not the problem. Hustle culture is.
And around here, we’re flipping the script.
Hi, I’m Carly.
I’m a slow-living strategist, award-winning educator, and recovering overachiever.
Before I built a business that actually felt like mine, I burned out so hard I had to rebuild everything from scratch—my health, my goals, and what “success” even meant.
So I took what I knew (from academia, business, and real life) and turned it into a new kind of support system—one that centers clarity, sustainability, and actual joy.
The Opt-Out Club is where all of that comes together.
What You Get Inside the Club:
✔ Personalized monthly coaching + guidance from me (you’ll always hear from me directly—not an assistant or guest coach)
✔ Monthly Shifts to challenge the status quo and move you forward
✔ Private podcast episodes with honest insight and unfiltered truth
✔ Real-talk emails that cut through the noise and call you back to what matters
✔ Biweekly “Ask Me Anything” Q&As driven by your real questions
✔ Resource Vault of thoughtful tools, guides, and creative ways to reconnect with what matters
✔ Exclusive access to my 1:1 Voxer mentorship program, Find Your Next Step
The Opt-Out Club is a supportive, strategic space to opt out of what’s not working—and finally do things your way.
$49/month
Questions? Meet Answers
Not sure how it all works? Want to know if there’s a secret handshake? You’re in the right place. Here’s everything you need to know (plus a few things you didn’t even know you wanted to ask).
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The Opt-Out Club is a monthly slow-living membership for women who are done with hustle and ready for a more intentional way forward. Each month, you’ll get a new “Shift”—a themed mini-course designed to help you reflect, explore, and take aligned action. You’ll also get cozy audio drops, gentle email encouragement, personalized guidance, and a growing vault of practical tools—so you always feel supported, never overwhelmed.
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The Opt-Out Club isn’t a course with rigid steps or a group coaching program filled with Zoom calls and accountability checklists. And it’s definitely not one of those memberships where you sign up, get overwhelmed, and quietly peace out by Month 2.
Instead, it’s a choose-your-own-adventure for your real life—with bite-sized tools, audio encouragement, and real support from a real human (hi, it’s me 👋). You’ll get monthly coaching check-ins, thoughtful responses to your questions, and personalized guidance—all without the pressure to keep up or perform.
No pressure. No falling behind. Just a slow and steady way forward that actually fits.
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Nope—and we’re kind of glad you asked. Each Monthly Shift is more like a full self-paced experience: part course, part reflection guide, part choose-your-own-adventure.
Inside, you’ll find a themed lesson with grounded insight (always research-backed), reflection prompts, real-life practices, and multiple paths to explore based on what you need most right now.
It’s intentionally flexible, but incredibly rich—and it’s designed to help you take action in ways that actually feel doable.
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Each Shift is designed to support you in real-time—which means it’s only available for the month it’s released. After 30 days, it makes room for the next one. You’ll always have access to the Resource Vault, podcast episodes, and your inbox emails, but the core Shift content rotates monthly to help you stay present and gently focused on one step at a time.
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No worries—there’s nothing to “keep up” with here. We don’t do pressure.
Each Monthly Shift is available for 30 days, but here’s the secret: as long as you access it while it’s live, you can make your own copy to keep and revisit whenever you like. Whether you’re moving slow (hi, same) or life gets lifey, you won’t miss your moment.
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Nope—and that’s on purpose. The Opt-Out Club is designed to cut the noise, not add to it. No pressure to show up in a group or scroll through endless posts. Instead, you’ll get meaningful support (like monthly Shifts, podcast Q&As, and personalized guidance) in a way that honors your time and energy.
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Yes! You can submit questions any time using the Ask Me Anything form inside your dashboard. I answer them in our biweekly private podcast episodes—with thoughtful, real responses designed to support your next step. You’ll also receive a monthly check-in invitation, where you can share what’s going on and receive personalized guidance to help you stay aligned and supported.
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You’ll be billed on the same day each month. So if you join on the 12th, your next charge will be the 12th of the following month.
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You can cancel your membership at any time before your next billing date. No hoops, no “are you sure?” pop-ups, and definitely no guilt trips.
Here’s how:
→ Log into your member dashboard
→ Click the Membership Help & Support lesson
→ Follow the easy stepsYou’ll lose access right away, so be sure to save anything you want to keep. And if you ever want to rejoin? The Clubhouse doors are always open.
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Because this is a digital membership with instant access to materials and monthly personalized components, I’m not able to offer refunds. But I’ve done everything I can to make this transparent, supportive, and worth every penny. If you have any questions before joining, just reach out.
